“The practice of homosexuality is incompatible with Christian teaching. Therefore self-avowed practicing homosexuals are not to be certified as candidates, ordained as ministers, or appointed to serve in The United Methodist Church.”
That passage from the United Methodist Book of Discipline haunted me as I grew up in a UMC congregation in Texas. I sensed a call to ministry from an early age, but I also knew my denomination denied my God-given dignity because I was gay.
I sensed a call to ministry from an early age, but I also knew my denomination denied my God-given dignity because I was gay.
Wednesday morning, the UMC’s highest legislative body removed the discriminatory ban from the Book of Discipline. The denomination also adopted another policy barring clergy or churches that celebrate same-sex weddings from being penalized. Last week, the UMC proclaimed a new statement of support “for the equal rights, liberties, and protections of all people, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity.”
Additional measures affirming LGBTQ dignity will be taken up this week as the UMC’s General Conference meets in Charlotte, North Carolina.
This monumental embrace of the dignity of LGBTQ people will be the most impactful move by any Christian denomination to change its policies in recent years. The United Methodist Church is the largest mainline Protestant denomination in the country, with 5,424,043 members and 29,746 active churches as of 2022.
The Methodist change of church policy is an important moment in the broader cultural shift toward LGBTQ acceptance and affirmation. We can put to rest the idea that religion and LGBTQ rights are inherently in conflict. Just as positive views on LGBTQ rights have trended upward, so, too, have Christian groups evolved their theological understandings of human sexuality and gender identity. In the process, more and more churches have embraced a more expansive view of human dignity.
Unsure whether the “God vs. Gays” narrative is outdated? I invite you to visit your local Pride parade this June and count the number of churches marching in the street.
The UMC vote is the latest in a wave of good news for LGBTQ Christians as more and more churches change their policies. The Evangelical Lutheran Church in America, the Episcopal Church and the Presbyterian Church USA, the nation’s second-, third- and fourth-largest mainline Protestant denominations, have all taken pro-LGBTQ steps in recent years. Pope Francis has moved the Catholic Church in a positive direction, allowing priests to bless same-sex couples.
And whether or not their official teachings condone homosexuality, Christians in the pews favor LGBTQ rights. Majorities of white Catholics, Hispanic Catholics, white evangelicals, white mainline Protestants, Black Protestants, Latter-day Saints and Orthodox Christians support laws protecting LGBTQ people from discrimination, according to the Public Religion Research Institute.
There’s also a movement for LGBTQ dignity in Christian communities around the globe.
There’s also a movement for LGBTQ dignity in Christian communities around the globe. South African Archbishop Desmond Tutu, who died in 2021, was one of the fiercest advocates. “I would not worship a God who is homophobic,” he once said. “I would refuse to go to a homophobic heaven. No, I would say, ‘Sorry, I would much rather go to the other place.’”
Some parts of the United Methodist Church didn’t wait for the discriminatory language to be removed to start treating LGBTQ Methodists with dignity. The Rev. Karen Oliveto became the first openly LGBTQ bishop in the denomination in 2016. “As I bring my full self into spaces, it invites others, no matter who they are, to be more authentic,” Oliveto told CBS News. “To have people who are powerful role models can change everything.” I wish I’d had Bishop Oliveto as a role model when I was growing up Methodist. My mom and I attended the 2016 meeting of the General Conference in Portland, Oregon. I was in seminary and hoping the denomination would remove the harmful language then. It didn’t, and I left in search of a church outside the UMC that didn’t discriminate. I’m still connected to the UMC, though, as a student in the doctor of ministry program at one of its seminaries, Iliff School of Theology in Denver. While I left the UMC because of the discriminatory language, some churches have left recently out of a concern that those “self-avowed practicing homosexuals” weren’t being sufficiently punished. The formerly UMC anti-LGBTQ congregations have dominated news coverage of the UMC vote for LGBTQ equality. It’s sad that these disaffiliations have dominated news coverage. Yes, some Christians are anti-LGBTQ. That’s not noteworthy, and it’s certainly not the main story here. The lifting of the ban is the story. The trend in American Christianity is toward an embrace of LGBTQ equality. It’s true that some Christians are anti-LGBTQ. That’s not noteworthy and certainly not the main story here. Granted, in some ways, the focus on the anti-LGBTQ animus that is deeply entangled with religion makes some sense. Waves of anti-LGBTQ legislation are sweeping state legislatures. There’s no doubt we are witnessing a backlash to advances in LGBTQ rights. But it’s wrong to portray that backlash as religious and the advance in rights as a secular phenomenon. Debates about LGBTQ dignity are happening within religious bodies, just as they are happening in secular legislatures. Chalk up this Methodist vote as perhaps the biggest victory yet for LGBTQ dignity within religious spaces.
Guthrie Graves-Fitzsimmons
Guthrie Graves-Fitzsimmons is vice president of programs and strategy at Interfaith Alliance and the author of "Just Faith: Reclaiming Progressive Christianity." 
