This week, as another case of socially powerful teenage boys allegedly committing rape and seemingly getting away with it–this time in Maryville, Missouri –captivated national attention, the conversation predictably focused on the victim’s drinking. “I’m not saying she deserved to be raped,” said a defense attorney on Fox News of one of the victims, 14-year-old Daisy Coleman, adding, “She is leaving her home at 1 a.m. in the morning and nobody forced her to drink.” Slate’s Emily Yoffe claimed that “a misplaced fear of blaming the victim has made it somehow unacceptable to warn inexperienced young women that when they get wasted, they are putting themselves in potential peril.” USA Today referred to Coleman dismissively as a “drunken 14-year-old cheerleader.”
Whether the alleged victims were “wasted” or “drunken” does matter, but not for the reasons those commentators suggested. It matters legally, because in most states, incapacitated people are unable to consent to sex, whether because they’ve drunk alcohol (even, in many states, if they’ve done so knowingly and voluntarily), taken prescription or illegal drugs, or are developmentally disabled.
And though it won’t apply retroactively to Coleman’s case as a special prosecutor looks into whether charges should be refiled, Missouri law recently became even clearer on that point.
The Kansas City Star reported that Coleman’s blood alcohol content was .13 seven hours after the alleged rape. (The legal limit for driving under the influence is .08 in all 50 states). Coleman said she blacked out, and her friend told the Kansas City Star that Coleman was “unable to speak coherently and had to be carried from the bedroom” that night.
Despite years of rape law reform, many people still imagine rape as a crime involving literal force, rather than lack of legal consent.
The fact that incapacitated people can’t legally consent to sex remains poorly understood, even after two teenage football players were found delinquent of raping an incapacitated girl in Steubenville, Ohio. The confusion is so widespread, says Scott Berkowitz, president and founder of the Rape, Abuse, and Incest National Network (RAINN), that one of the most frequent questions RAINN gets is, “Is ‘date rape’ illegal?” Teens in particular, he told MSNBC, wonder about whether the use of alcohol or the fact of the perpetrator being known to the victim makes it rape. “Because that question is so common, we stopped using that term,” Berkowitz said.
That confusion affects both potential victims and potential perpetrators, who may not understand the depth of legal trouble their actions may invite. It also provides cover to predators who have been known to use a victim’s voluntary drinking as cover for their assault.
It’s also why feminist activists have tried to redirect the anti-rape conversations from “no means no” to affirmative consent and clear understanding that a partner is enthusiastically participating.
A handbook for attorneys on prosecuting alcohol-facilitated sexual assault created by the National District Attorneys Association acknowledges that jurors “tend to assume that the woman consented because she was intoxicated and simply regretted the sexual encounter later. In these cases, the defense tends to argue: ‘It’s not rape; it’s regret,’ or, ‘It’s buyer’s remorse.’” Indeed, the attorney for Matthew Barnett, who is accused of raping Coleman who left her unconscious in front of her house in subzero weather, claimed to the press that “subsequent investigation and interviews raised substantial doubt about the felony charge, specifically including whether the young lady was incapacitated during the encounter.” Barnett claimed to the police that the sexual encounter was consensual.
That was the version that Nodaway County, Mo., prosecutor Robert Rice seemed to be endorsing when he told the Kansas City Star of the teens, “They were doing what they wanted to do, and there weren’t any consequences. And it’s reprehensible. But is it criminal? No.” (After a Kansas City Star investigation and subsequent public outrage at the case, Rice evidently changed his mind, requesting that a special prosecutor reopen the case.)
Because inability to consent is not a bright line the way impaired driving is, it often requires making a case to jurors based on several elements of evidence. At the same time, as the NDAA handbook noted: “Prosecutors must overcome the tendency to focus on and blame the victim and re-direct the focus back to the offender’s actions, and thus on the elements of the crime.”









