When women are faced with the unknown in the workplace, they shouldn’t seize up. Rather, they should seize the moment.
That was one of the biggest takeaways from a recent discussion between Know Your Value founder and “Morning Joe” co-host Mika Brzezinski and Cheryl Guerin, Mastercard’s executive vice president of marketing and communications in North America.
Guerin learned that lesson in 2005, when she pivoted from advertising to digital marketing at a time when social media was starting to build in a big way. She was nervous when her boss told her to view the job as a “white board” and for her to create her own path.
“This is so Know Your Value, because I talk a lot about women disliking a path that doesn’t have clear rules, benchmarks and very strong borders,” said Brzezinski. “And you were given a white board. That’s the worst news on Earth for many women. Sometimes we’re like, ‘No. please give me rules!’
Brzezinski asked Guerin how she got over that mental hurdle. Part of it was having a supportive, female boss who believed in her, she said.
“But Cheryl, you did that already. You know how to do that. And I think there’s a better opportunity for you,” Guerin recounted her boss telling her. “There’s a white board ahead of us in digital. Look at what’s happening. Times are changing. Dig into that. You could own it and really build from nothing,” the boss added.
Guerin listened and eventually succeeded. “It was scary,” she said. “But it was so interesting. I learned out of this experience that first of all, when you take on something new that no one else has done before, nobody else knows how to critique you, because they haven’t done it before either.”
In three months, Guerin became the resident expert in social media and marketing at a time when it really mattered, which she described as a “game-changer” for her career. “[I learned] you can do something, and adapt it from nothing. And then two, I [learned] I needed that prodding and that’s really important to have leaders do this for women and give them that little extra push and rationale and the feeling that they can do it.”
They also chatted about Guerin’s rise to the top of her field, how she has dealt with “nice girl syndrome,” working amid a global pandemic, building a personal brand and more.
Below is their conversation, which has been edited for brevity and clarity:
Brzezinski: You’ve talked before about having a “Sally Field-you-like me” complex and having “nice girl syndrome.” I think we might be soul sisters! Those were some of my biggest problems early in my career. Tell me about that.
Guerin: I really do have this. And, all kidding aside, I won a Miss Congeniality award when I was in high school. It’s natural. You want people to like you, to be inspired by you …
When I had less confidence, I compromised more than I should have. I didn’t realize it at the time, because you want to be non-confrontational, you don’t want to get into conflict.
…The reality is you can be yourself, you can be a good person, but you could add a strategy, a point of view, a stance ― and you can confidently have a discussion and debate without taking away anything. Over the years I’ve learned if you’re generally approachable, if you’re generally always there with authenticity, people will respect you. And that gives you a right to have your point of view …
You don’t have to change your persona either. One thing I never lost is that approachability [with my co-workers]. I would never want to change who I am. And it does take having a point of view and having confident conversations with your team on vision and direction. I know there’s the stereotypes about women, and some think you should change your persona and you have to be ruthless to get to the top. That’s the worst thing… If you’re the person who’s battling everything, you just become hard to work with.








