If you’re just starting out in your career, chances are you’re learning how to navigate the unwritten norms that shape your organization’s culture.
According to Cynthia Groves – a leadership expert and adviser at Georgetown’s McDonough School of Business – understanding those implicit office rules requires the same strategic thinking as playing a game of chess.
Groves, who leads her own consulting firm, considers her career journey as a series of “chess moves,” guided by mentorship, trust-building and collaboration. Now, she’s out with a playbook on those lessons, “Mastering the Corporate Chess Game: Strategies for Advancing Your Career.”

The book features her insights, as well as chapters from other top executives who share their experiences decoding the unwritten rules of the workplace.
From CBS News senior correspondent Norah O’Donnell, to former presidential appointee at the U.S. Small Business Administration, Cherylyn Harley LeBon, to elite gymnast-turned-real estate principal Lizzy Conroy – Groves taps leaders from across industries who reflect on their early career challenges and provide practical advice for the next generation.
Groves recently shared lessons from the book, including the first steps every young professional should take to decoding their workplace culture.
Below is the conversation, which has been edited for brevity and clarity.
Know Your Value: Why did you decide to write this book and who is it for?
Groves: During my consulting career at the “Big Four” accounting firms (Deloitte, PricewaterhouseCoopers, Ernst & Young, KMPG), I thought how wonderful it would be to pass on all the knowledge I had accumulated throughout my career to those workers who are just starting out and may not have the benefit of a mentor.
“Mastering the Corporate Chess Game” will help young professionals eager to understand workplace dynamics, forge meaningful connections, and build collaborative teams.
Know Your Value: Your book focuses on deciphering the unwritten rules of workplace culture. What do you think is the biggest unspoken norm that young professionals consistently overlook?
Groves: Norms are the unwritten practices that a given culture demands. In a firm, young professionals do not influence how tasks are assigned, how rewards are distributed and how career advancement is achieved.
Listening and observing carefully is critical to a chess player’s win at the end of the game. Almost always, it requires meeting other people in the same environment and engaging in dialogue and building trust. Norms are communicated by those who have been in the environment for some time. It is just how things are done, often without conscious thought. A trusting relationship with experienced co-workers can be invaluable to navigating the complexity of the normative structure.
Know Your Value: The book shares personal stories from contributors across different industries. Was there a particular story or pivot you loved the most?









