Born around the time MSNBC was founded, my formative years have been shaped by the same significant moments which shaped the network. The past two decades have proven to be a time of immeasurable violence and social turmoil, but also the golden age of rapid technological growth and innovation. For me, the advent of Skype in 2003 has had a great impact on my life.
Until I was eight, I would dial my mormor’s (Swedish for grandmother) phone number on a land line so I could talk to her. My family had an international home phone plan, but 60 minutes a month wasn’t cost efficient and faxing letters wasn’t convenient — until Skype. My mom put me in front of a laptop one day and said “here, talk to Mormor.” It was the first time we could converse almost unlimitedly for a fraction of the price. Today, we are able to call anyone anywhere on a daily basis from our smartphones, making us feel closer (minus the time difference!)
For MSNBC’s 20th anniversary, I asked twenty millennials, all about 20-years-old, what historical or newsworthy event in their lifetime has resonated with them the most. Here are their answers:
John Vaiani, 20
September 11, 2001
My father was a Special Agent with the United States Secret Service (USSS) during the September 11thterrorist attacks. At the time, my father and other agents who worked in the New York Field Office in the WTC were able to get out of the building and reach safety. But being the brave and honorable man that he is, my father put together a team of agents who reentered the building to evacuate injured civilians before the second tower collapsed. He suffered devastating injuries to his neck, shoulders and back, but fought through these wounds to continue the search for missing persons in the towers and in the surrounding area. Although I was only six at the time and did not have a very good understanding of the events that had occurred, I knew my dad was a true hero. My dad’s actions taught me to always to put others before yourself, help those who can’t help themselves, and that love and sacrifice of oneself will always triumph in the end over these horrific terror attacks that only attempt to discourage and create hate amongst people. To this day, my father does not talk about the events of 9/11. Instead he lives each day as a silent hero of 9/11 and will forever be the most inspiring person I have ever met.
Sydney Persing, 19
Ferguson, 2014
The riots that followed the death of Michael Brown in Ferguson, Missouri had a major impact on the country as a whole, but they also had a significant impact on my life. High profile news and political stories didn’t interest me, so I didn’t watch the news. Instead, I got most of my information from social media, reading my peers’ Facebook posts and shared articles. In that moment, I realized that as millennials, we have a powerful platform on the Internet, and we have an obligation to use that responsibly. In my opinion, it’s a real benefit to society that we can openly share our points of view, but it becomes a real detriment when we publish opinions or unverified claims, and try to pass them off to our peers as facts. Ferguson was a wake-up call to me that what we post has an impact on the opinions and emotions of others, and it’s on us to take that seriously.
Alex Cecil, 21
Sandy Hook Elementary School Shooting, 2012
I was in my senior year of high school when Adam Lanza killed six adults and twenty first graders before taking his own life. News reports in the following days matched every victim’s name with their school photo. I remember in precise, awful clarity that seemingly endless reel of faces scrolling across the television. I think the grief and horror felt by the nation as a whole at the time was fathomless, especially so for parents. My mother, with one daughter in high school, the other in college and memories of the massacres at Columbine and Virginia Tech always at the back of her mind, held me tightly when I got home on the day of the tragedy. As accounts on the events of Sandy Hook came out in the weeks and months after the massacre, I remember being most affected by one survivor’s report. A six-year-old girl, the only child to make it out of the first targeted classroom alive, evaded the shooter by playing dead in the midst of her lifeless classmates. Months later, at the summer camp where I worked with seven and eight year olds, I overheard two little girls discussing where they would hide when – when! – the man with the gun came. I started kindergarten in the shadow of Columbine, with drum-tight security, frequent lockdown drills, and to my memory, no concept of why these things were going on. Of course I knew that if a dangerous person came to the school, I was to stay quiet and listen to my teacher, but nowhere in my mental lexicon did the word ‘shooter’ exist. The Sandy Hook massacre and the gun control controversies that contributed to its occurrence are responsible for the loss of innocence in a generation of elementary school children in Connecticut and around the country. It remains one of the saddest events that I remember in grave detail.
Anonymous, 20
Marriage Equality in New York, 2011
As a gay female, the legalization of same-sex marriage in New York State had a profound impact on my life. By my junior year of high school, I was out to my family and friends; however, I was not yet comfortable enough to discuss the legalization of same sex marriage. So on June 24, 2011, I silently went into my room and watched as the Senate voted on the bill. It was a close vote – so close that I started getting nervous – but the moment came where the decision was made: I could marry in my own state. I started crying beneath the blankets. This decision came at a pivotal time when I was discovering my own identity. It told me that my state doesn’t care that I will marry another woman and that I should not be ashamed to be who I am. The decision gave me the confidence to embrace and love who I am. And one month later, on July 24, 2011, my counselor at sleep away camp hugged me and said “Congrats, you can get married now.” That moment will stick with me forever.
Kelley Hamill, 22
Boston Marathon Bombings, 2013
While the Boston Marathon bombings weren’t the first terrorist attack my generation has witnessed, it is an event that has resonated with me the most. And not because of the fear that I felt, knowing my close friends and friend’s families were at the race, but instead because of the unity that I felt afterwards. In the days following the attacks reports of the solidarity throughout the city and country showed, from the Dunkin Donuts that stayed open to serve the first responders during the lock down, to my classmates at UNC wearing Boston sports apparel around campus. It was the first time I felt something so evil hit so close to home, but also the first time I really felt that there was a lot more love then hate in the world.
Sam Galina, 19
Invisible Children: Kony, 2012
I remember hearing about Kony2012 my sophomore year of high school and not believing war criminals like Joseph Kony still exist in this world. Kony2012 was a short film that went viral on YouTube, exposing a war in Uganda that had been going on for 20 years where Kony and his rebel army were abducting children and forcing them to become soldiers. The power of social media is what amazed me – the way a video condemning a Ugandan war criminal could reach and empower so many young people here in the United States in just mere days. Our generation is proving to be the best connected to the rest of the world and with that we hold a great responsibility.
Jessie Laffey, 20
Nike Training Club App, 2011
Mobile fitness apps, like The Nike Training Club app, have revolutionized my practice regime. The app’s workouts are curated from team USA’s top athletes and each exercise is accompanied by a video of how to perfect each move. The app shares motivational quotes after each completed workout, such as “strong looks good with everything”, and provides an interactive trainer to help maintain performance by saying “don’t quit now!” With this technology, I can customize my workout based on intensity and timespan, and even tailor according to which muscle group I want to work that day. I can download workouts and use them offline wherever I go, making my training cheap, accessible, and challenging.
Wyatt Packer, 21
Orlando Nightclub Shooting, 2016
A week after the Orlando shooting, my brother and best friend visited me in D.C. We went out to a fun gay club because that’s the only place where people under 21 can get in. At 2am, the same time the Orlando shootings happened, I felt really unsafe despite being in a “safe space” and having a great time with my friends and brother, so I made us leave. It’s sad and unfair to feel paranoid and unsafe in a public space and I want our government to do something about it.
Phil Cox, 22
iPhone, 2007
While not the most profound, I think one life changing moment was the introduction of the iPhone. Things we now take totally for granted —touch interface, scrolling, visual voicemail, etc — are totally ubiquitous in both iPhones and their competitors. More importantly, one’s “phone” is a requisite part of every facet of daily life. It has totally changed human behavior and sociability.
Dany Guerrero, 21
Snowden’s NSA Leaks, 2013
As most Americans, I grew up believing that my rights would be guaranteed and protected so long as I abided by the law. Not having done anything to suggest I was not a law-abiding citizen, I was appalled to learn that a government agency, which should not be exempt from our system of checks and balances, had been allowed to violate one of my most fundamental rights. What remains to be done is for the citizens and leaders of democratic societies—people who live in a world that is increasingly marked by the wounds of terrorist attacks—to decide to what extent we are willing to compromise privacy in the name of security.
Ezra Baeli-Wang, 20
House Bill 2, 2016
North Carolina’s passage of House Bill 2, which legislates that individuals may only use restrooms that correspond to the sex on their birth certificates, was a memorable event for me for a number of reasons. My temporary residence in the state of North Carolina as a UNC student-athlete evoked complicated emotions with regard to my regional, academic, and athletic identities. As someone involved in collegiate athletics governance, I am deeply concerned about the confidence with which we can continue to guarantee safe, inclusive environments for all of our students, student-athletes, coaches, faculty, and staff, with four ACC schools falling under the jurisdiction of a law that codifies the legitimacy of discriminating against people based on their gender identity or sexual orientation. The Bill’s passage in a climate of growing skepticism surrounding local government’s investment in minority groups’ wellbeing was offensive and shocking in a lot of ways – I never expected to bear witness to the creation of blatantly discriminatory laws that would undo what little progress the system has made.
Brittany Mayes, 22









