Even amid the celebration, “we know we’ve got to roll up our sleeves and get to work for those in the 37 states that didn’t get marriage equality today,” Human Rights Campaign President Chad Griffin said in a very public conversation with President Obama on Wednesday. The two men spoke by phone as Griffin stood outside the Supreme Court just minutes after the court announced it had stuck down the Defense of Marriage Act and allowed same-sex marriage to resume in the state of California.
Calling from Air Force One, the president praised the plaintiffs in the California case–two couples–for their courage and said they were “helping out a whole lot of people everywhere.” But not all.
As Griffin noted, the decisions–one invalidating the 1996 DOMA law and one upholding a lower court decision preserving gay marriage in California–still say nothing for the bulk of the country. Married gay couples who don’t live in the District of Columbia and the 13 states with marriage equality can now expect to face some confusion over whether or not they qualify as legally married.
And marriage is just part of the patchwork of issues concerning LGBT residents, particularly in southern states, the Rev. Jasmine Beach-Ferrara of the Campaign for Southern Equality, noted.
“We live in a region of the country that is not likely to adopt same-sex marriage on a state-by-state basis in the near future… Same-sex families living in the South lack basic legal protections, which result in harm and suffering,” she said in a statement on the twin rulings Wednesday.
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In an April interview, several gay couples living in red states described how they felt about the then-upcoming SCOTUS rulings and about leaving marriage equality up to the states. Most expressed a cautious optimism. But some said they routinely consider leaving their homes for blue states while others spoke of the need to dig in and fight for equality at home, whether that home is Jackson, Mississippi, Atlanta, or Austin.
“We can’t stay here if we’re not allowed to have all the rights of married folks,” Kristina Lestik, an Austin-based teacher told me when discussing her relationship with Kelly Wroblewski. The couple admitted to considering a move to the Pacific Northwest where same-sex marriage is legal in Washington.
“Getting out of Texas will be really hard,” said Wroblewski, saying that her mother lives nearby. “But it just seems inevitable.”
In a sign of just how important a state-by-state effort is for overturning laws discriminating against same-sex couples, the ACLU announced today it has hired Steve Schmidt, former campaign strategist for the McCain campaign, former Bush and Cheney staffer and msnbc political analyst.









