Monday marked the first business day in which gay and lesbian couples across Illinois could obtain marriage licenses or have their civil unions “upgraded,” so to speak, as the state’s Religious Freedom and Marriage Fairness Act officially went into effect.
“It sounded like a strange word to me; it sounded like something that you do at McDonald’s when you supersize something,” said Jim Williams, who was able to “upgrade” his civil union with partner Zach Lamm to a marriage on June 1.
“I think that the weirdness of that word, though, just reflects the weirdness of the whole situation,” Lamm added. “The idea that marriage is not, at this point, something that people in our situation would ‘enter’ into; it’s something that you would ‘upgrade’ into.”
Illinois became the 16th state to legalize marriage equality last November. But it would be almost another seven months before the law was due to take effect. For Patricia Ewert and Vernita Gray, who had terminal cancer, that wait was simply too long. They became the first same-sex couple to marry in Illinois, after a federal judge ordered the Cook County clerk to issue them an expedited marriage license. Four months later, Gray passed away.
In February, a different federal judge decided that all the other gay and lesbian couples in Cook County — the state’s largest — shouldn’t have to wait until June 1 either. That ruling cleared the way for Cook County Clerk David Orr to immediately begin issuing marriage licenses to same-sex couples. More than a dozen other clerks followed suit.








