Don’t feel guilty about celebrating on Memorial Day with a beach trip or barbecue—just take a few moments to remember military service members killed in action and the families who mourn them.
That’s the message from retired Brig. Gen. Carol Eggert, Comcast’s senior vice president of military and veteran affairs.
“Service members died to protect that right to leisure, and there is nothing wrong with it,” Eggert told Know Your Value. “But they also appreciate reflection and recognition of those who have made the ultimate sacrifice.”
Eggert knows first hand: She served in the Army, the Army Reserve and the National Guard, and she completed several overseas deployments including a 15-month combat tour in support of Operation Iraqi Freedom as Chief of the Women’s Initiatives Division and senior liaison to the U.S. Embassy in Baghdad. She has received several awards for her service such as the Legion of Merit, Bronze Star, Purple Heart and multiple awards of the Meritorious Service Medal.
Eggert herself often spends Memorial Days at military grave sites, and she is passionate about highlighting the stories of military members, particularly women, who were killed in action.
“It’s part of the bigger issue of the civilian-military divide — because there’s no draft now you don’t necessarily know the person next door,” Eggert said. “It’s not malice, but we just don’t talk about these stories much. Veterans in general are a pretty humble group, and in part because women are a smaller population, they’re recognized to an even lesser extent. Women don’t tell their stories and don’t take their rightful place as warriors.”
Eggert shared the stories of five military women killed in action throughout history to remember this Memorial Day:
U.S. Army Specialist Lori Piestewa, 23
Born Dec. 14, 1979; killed in action in Iraq on March 23, 2003
Pfc. Piestewa, who was posthumously promoted to Specialist, was the first Native American woman in history to die in combat while serving in the U.S. military. She was also the first American woman in the U.S. military to be killed in the Iraq War.
Piestewa was assigned to the 507th Maintenance Company stationed on Fort Bliss, which was responsible for transporting water and supplies among providing other assistance to combat units. She died in Iraq after an ambush on her Humvee, which she was sitting in with her best friend Pfc. Jessica Lynch—who was captured by Iraqi forces and held as a prisoner of war before U.S. Special Operators troops recovered her on April 1. Piestewa was awarded the Purple Heart and Prisoner of War Medal.
“Because Jessica’s story got so much media attention, Lori highlighted that when you’re a woman on convoys bringing supplies, you are in combat — you are right in there with the combat units,” Eggert said. “Those units take the risks and sometimes pay the ultimate prices.”
After the death of Piestewa, a member of the Hopi tribe, Arizona named Piestewa Peak after her. She is also recognized in the annual Lori Piestewa National Native American Games, in which 10,000 Native Americans compete in a multi-day sports event.
1st Lt. Ashley White, 24
Born Sept. 3, 1987; killed in action in Afghanistan on Oct. 22, 2011
First Lt. White was among the first group of women soldiers in combat as part of a Cultural Support Team (CST), which were created in 2010 to help make connections with local Afghan citizens. She was the first member of a CST to be killed in action. At the time of her death in 2011, women were officially banned from combat but could be attached to Special Operations units as part of a CST.
“I was serving when the idea of CSTs came to be, and people like Ashley really do play a critical role,” Eggert said. “Many people think women couldn’t be involved at all in Special Ops then, but those CSTs are attached, serving right alongside.”
White was killed during combat operations in Kandahar Province, Afghanistan, and she posthumously received the Bronze Star Medal, the Purple Heart, the Meritorious Service Medal, the Afghanistan Campaign Medal and the Combat Action Badge. Later, in the 2015 New York Times bestseller “Ashley’s War,” author Gayle Tzemach Lemmon chronicled her story and that of CSTs.








