Pattie Ehsaei

Pattie Ehsaei is a director of mergers & acquisitions financing at a major lending institution, and the author of “Never Date A Broke Dude: The Financial Freedom Playbook.” She has led many teams in the financial services industry, ranging from commercial banking to investment banking, where she was managing partner and head of business development at GRID Partners. She regularly provides commentary on personal finance topics to a variety of media outlets, including Good Morning America, Huffington Post, Yahoo, BBC, and on her TikTok channel, @DuchessOfDecorum; she holds a B.A. from the University of Colorado in Boulder, and a J.D. from Loyola Law School in Chicago. 


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Pattie Ehsaei

8mos ago
Out of Office

How a financial tragedy spurred me to take control of my finances

Author Pattie Ehsaei shares lessons for women to take ownership of their financial lives, recognize red flags early, and never feel trapped in relationships because of money.

12mos ago
Health & Mindset

The 5 money moves that will bolster your mental health

For women, who often face unique financial challenges, fostering financial wellness can significantly improve emotional resilience and overall quality of life.

1year ago
Career Growth

The 7 money moves every woman should make in 2025

From strategic investing to maintaining control of your money, finance expert Pattie Ehsaei shares strategies for financial empowerment, stability and long-term freedom.

1year ago
Health & Mindset

The unexpected joys of being single in your 50s

TikTok sensation Pattie Ehsaei shares the revelation that led her to embrace the benefits — and freedoms — of finally putting herself first later in life. 

2years ago
Career Growth

Why this TikTok sensation says being 50 is her secret weapon

Pattie Ehsaei – better known as TikTok’s “Duchess of Decorum” – explains how she’s amassed nearly 1 million followers on social media, largely because of her age and experience.